Starting a healthy relationship is not a big deal but maintaining and make that relationships flourish is a really tough job. It is tough to an extent that at times they do not exist anymore and come to an end. We all get into relationship with a plan that it will make our lives better and peaceful.
There is a whole list of expectations and demands from our partners as we get into a relationship. But the thing is that those expectations and demands can only be fulfilled in short run but when we talk about those expectations in long run, only disappointment exists. It’s not like that relationship are meant this way, it’s just we don’t realize how to respect that relationship and we fail to keep up with that in the long run. In other words, we don’t know how to win a relationship. We only care about what we receive and that doesn’t work at all. If we want things to get on the right track we should only care about what we give.
When this type of behavior is adopted at both ends, relationships will surly win. Another thing that can ruin even a very healthy relationship is that we often tend to put the blame on the other person. We tend to find wrong things in other person and when we are upset we blame that person for those things. By this particular act we also tend to judge the other person which is so unwanted for a healthy relationship to flourish.
This will only weaken the thread of your relationship. In short we should learn the art of giving that doesn’t include expecting something in return. In addition to that try to listen to your partner carefully and with proper attention. It’s an enormous gift for your partner when you start listening to them with care. So guys change your own self today instead of wanting the other person to change. Furthermore, don’t make fast decisions. Be patience and calm and try to sort things out with love and mutual understanding.